What to Do When You Get Ghosted (and How to Respond)
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Ghosting is a common experience on dating apps, but it doesn’t have to derail your confidence or your search for connection. Here’s how to handle it gracefully and move forward.
Why Ghosting Happens
People lose interest, get busy, or don’t know how to end a conversation. Sometimes, it’s not about you at all.
How to Respond (or Not Respond)
If you get ghosted, don’t take it personally. You can send a light follow-up, but don’t overdo it. Respect their space and focus on new connections.
Example Follow-Up Message
Hey! Just wanted to check in. If you’re still interested, I’d love to keep chatting. If not, no worries—wishing you all the best!
This message is light, respectful, and leaves the door open without pressure.
When to Move On vs. Follow Up
If there’s no reply after a follow-up, move on. Focus on new connections and don’t dwell on one conversation.
How to Avoid Getting Ghosted
Keep conversations engaging, ask questions, and show genuine interest. But remember, ghosting isn’t always about you.
Self-Care Tips for Handling Rejection
Take a break, talk to friends, and remember your worth. Rejection is part of dating—don’t let it define you.
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