July 14, 2025 • Messaging Tips
What to Say When They Don’t Respond on Dating Apps
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Getting ghosted or ignored on dating apps is common. Here’s how to handle it, what to say, and how to improve your chances of getting a reply.
Why People Don’t Respond
Busy schedules, too many matches, or lack of interest are common reasons. Don’t take it personally—focus on what you can control.
Best Follow-Up Messages
Examples
"Hey! Just wanted to check in—did you see my last message?"
"No worries if you’re busy! If you want to chat, I’m here."
"I promise I’m more interesting than my opener. Want to try again?"
"If you’re not feeling it, that’s cool—just wanted to say hi!"
"I saw you like [interest]. Any recommendations for a beginner?"
These follow-ups are light, positive, and respectful.
Tips for Handling No Response
- Wait a few days before following up
- Send only one follow-up message
- Keep it light and positive
- Move on if there’s still no reply
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