July 14, 2025 • Messaging Tips
Common Dating App Messaging Mistakes (and How to Fix Them)
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Struggling to get replies on dating apps? You might be making one of these common messaging mistakes. Here’s how to fix them and improve your results.
Top Messaging Mistakes
Common Mistakes
Using generic openers like "Hey" or "Hi"
Copy-pasting the same message to everyone
Sending overly long or short messages
Not referencing anything from their profile
Being too forward or making inappropriate jokes
Asking yes/no questions that end the conversation
These mistakes reduce your chances of getting a reply.
How to Fix Your Messages
- Personalize your opener based on their profile
- Ask open-ended questions
- Keep your message friendly and positive
- Show genuine interest and curiosity
- Use humor, but keep it appropriate
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